Do you see yourself the way other people see you? When I think about myself, I see all these amazing qualities; qualities that my best friends point out; qualities I'm told men would want.
But then I look around. I'm alone. I'm single. I come to the realization that I have had a very hard time in dating and relationships. And if I really am all these amazing qualities, if those are what are shinning through, then why is that the case? Shouldn't it be the opposite, even if at the moment I am single?
Is it me? Or is it the men I'm dating? I am not advertising the best of me? Or am I advertising the best so well, that when I reveal a part that is not-so-great, they want out immediately because I'm not what they expected?
I wish I had an answer or something that I understood to be true. So if you have one, let me know please!
I'm not sure if you're a big reader, but if you are, I have a book recommendation. It's called Personality Plus, and it's written by Florence Littauer. It's about the 4 basic personality types, and how we all fall into one of the 4. It will help you see how you relate with other people, and who is a good match for you. Let me know if you have any questions!!
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