I don't know how to be something that an old boyfriend misses. I am always jealous of girls that I know who are dumped by their boyfriends, but then they end up coming back, asking for the girl to change her mind, sew up her broken heart, and give him another chance. I've never gotten that.
What is it about these women that they are able to entangle a man's thoughts so much, that they regret what they did and they come back to try for a second chance? Whatever the personality trait is, I'd like it. I would like to have that quality that an old boyfriend misses so much that he tries to get back into your life. I would love to be something you miss.
And what is it about him that I miss? Why do I miss him? Why would I even consider giving him another chance if he tried to get back into my life? After all the words that have been said, after all the tears that have been cried, after all the time apart, why do I still miss you? Why do I want to be that someone you miss?
Maybe I need to be something you miss so I feel validated as a large part of your life that you lost.
Typically that thing they "miss" is honesty and a real person. Not someone that tries to be everything that the boyfriend wants "you" to be but to be who YOU really are.
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